Bruiser’s right front leg was amputated this past Monday, September 20th. He was able to come home on Wednesday and I have been with him ever since. I have gone through so many emotions since bringing him home! I have been overjoyed, nervous, scared, happy, etc. Sometimes, I feel like we are doing really well and other times I wonder if I made the wrong decision. Will Bruiser adjust to his new 3 leg life? I am certain he will, but when I see him struggle, my heart breaks. I was told the first few days would be hard, but I was not prepared for just how hard it would be. Every time he whines or cries, it hurts me. Every time he tires out and needs to rest, it hurts me. Every time I take him out to pee and I have to support him, I just feel awful. Is this common? Have others gone through these emotions the first few days/weeks? I also think I am overly emotional due to lack of sleep and due to the fact that I have not left the house in days. I realize I have to take care of myself if I am to take care of Bruiser, but it is very hard for me to leave him, even when I know he is with my husband and is safe. Basically, I am a wreck!
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Have others gone through this? You betcha. It’s called “The first two weeks are hell, but things DO get better!”
You’ll be amazed at how far Bruiser will come in the next couple of week. Chances are he’ll be doing much better than even you! Seriously, watch how he bounces back. Then, follow his lead. It’s the only way to live!
We’re so sorry you’re going through this but glad you found us and are sharing his story. If you’d like to talk to others about what to expect please come visit us in our discussion forums OK? You’re in great company, we’re here to help!
Our Mastiff Tazzie lived 14 months after amputation for osteosarcoma. She did well with the post-op recovery and chemo but she did slow down quite a bit (she was 6 yrs when diagnosed). We kept stairs to a minimum and learned that she just liked to take it easy in the backyard and maybe hop around the block every now and then. It is a little harder on these giant dogs but they can do it!
Pam
Yes they can do it!!
Cemil is an Anatolian Shepherd and after the first two weeks of hell, he learned to manage fine. Like Tazzie, he doesn’t expend too much energy, but he enjoys life. You’re dealing with pain medication and Bruiser learning new ways of moving and balancing–it will get better.
Mary